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من طرف أبومحمد الرضوانى 24.06.09 22:18TATTLING AND BACKBITING
Tattling increased inside women`s associate. Allah said "backbiting like to eating the meat of your brother not well cooked". The prophet said "tattler don't enter the paradise". Women ought to don't talk from any one because it was massive.
Any person should asked him self [Am I happy when any one talk about special things ]?.women fear god and don’t like [mother's gamel] wife's abu lahb
[wood holder] she was tattler. Tattler don't rest in burial.
Women should exploit our time in praise and giving advises to who need it.
In spare time go to religious's associate
Permissible backbiting:
Imam Al Nawawy refer it in Reyad .El salhen:
1:The person who was wronged when he complain to The judge
2: Seeking of help from change the wrongdoing when he tell the person who
Able to change it.
3: Request for an advisory opinion to His Eminence the Mufti.
4:Warning all Muslim from the evil and advise him like any one
Apply to any girl it necessary to tell them the true about him.
5:The person who spreader his wrongdoing so allow to any person to talk about him.
6:The definition [the person who nicknamed like blind] not allow to description any one of this quality
How are human can take out from wrong doing of backbiting:
1:To ask ALLAH forgiveness
2:Ask the human who talk about him to forgive him.
3:If he knew the person will be angry don't tell him and asked Allah to forgive him.
How are human fight the tattler ?
1:Advise him to leaves the tattling.
2:To hate this talk.
3:Don't believe any bad talk about your brother.
4:Don't translate this talk to any one.
Finally:
We do that to arrival to The Paradise
REHAM ALRDWANY